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April 22nd, 2015
Lily James and Richard Madden star in a scene from the movie “Cinderella.” (CNS photo/Disney Enterprises)There is some part of every little girl that wants to be Cinderella. After all, Cinderella has everything a little girl is supposed to want. She has cute little animal friends. She has a fairy godmother. She has a handsome prince. She is good. She is beautiful. But is she beautiful because she is good, or is she good because she is beautiful? Cinderella is a tale all about being worthy. Cinderella deserves her happy ending because she has endured the terrible abuse of her stepfamily with grace. She gets her happy ending; her handsome prince comes and whisks her away. However, one must ask, would he…
December 19th, 2010
Purifying the Christmas Air

As the days shorten and darkness covers our late afternoons and evenings, we naturally have some extra time to ponder significant moments of our lives. At holiday times, we remember Christmas and New Year celebrations of decades past. For those of us who grew up in households crossed by the affliction of addiction, holiday celebrations were often marred by unpleasantness, if not outright violence.

My Dad had numerous "worst moments" in his life, but it's the holiday snafus that stand out in memory, when alcohol too often fueled his smoldering rage. One Thanksgiving was ruined when, after a liquid feast of Schmidt's beer and Canadian Club instead of turkey, he lost his temper and started wailing on us kids. There was a Christmas when I was home from college, and Dad — who hadn't lived with us for years — showed up drunk. Long and short of it, I had him arrested that Christmas Eve. The image of him, handcuffed, being led to the cop car past the trees he had planted in our front yard years earlier remains burned in my memory.

September 22nd, 2008
A Young Mother Thinks About Love, Sex, Marriage and What To Tell Her Daughter
The sun pouring through the high window of my dorm at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill was a baptism of sorts, drenching me in my twin bed in slits of light...
December 21st, 2007
Christmas consolation...a belated obituary
It’s a Wonderful Life, is a great story, and I hope yours is a Bedford Falls kind of life. But our Pottervilles, both social and personal, still cry out for salvation, most poignantly during Advent and Christmastime. I write this without attaching my name in deference to my mother and my family, who in no way need nor deserve to be exposed in an article of this nature. Still I write, hopefully, to comfort and console, especially at Christmas, those like us who experienced the death of a family member whom we wanted to love. It was a little over a year ago that I received word that my father had died. To make things more painful, we learned that he had died two weeks earlier. It was just a strange coincidence that saw the…
April 18th, 2007
our readers and listeners respond
When faced with a horrible tragedy like the one that occured at Virginia Tech, we are immediately tempted to want to analyze and search for answers in an attempt to make sense out of utterly senseless acts. While the search for understanding must continue, we believe that the best use of our space at this time is to offer our thoughts and prayers to the entire Virginia Tech community, especially the victims and their families who need it most. We ask our readers at BustedHalo.com and our listeners from the BustedHalo show on Sirius satellite radio to send their prayers and expressions of sympathy to prayer@bustedhalo.com. We will forward your emails to the Campus Ministers at Virginia Tech and publish them here.…
April 12th, 2007
Some highlights from the first 99 episodes
Fr. Dave Dwyer and Mike Hayes’ entrance into the world of podcasting in December 2005 marked a new chapter in the Paulist Fathers’ great tradition of preaching “old truths in new forms.” Their initial inspiration to create a program that would discuss questions of faith and spiritual seeking for people in their 20s and 30s has grown and changed in ways no one could have predicted. Barely a year into the experiment the success of the podcast has been spun off into the BustedHalo Show with Fr. Dave Dwyer a daily program on Sirius satellite radio. The podcast has also spawned additional programs including one devoted to Fr. Dave’s homilies and another that collects the best bits from…
March 13th, 2007
Catholics in the Blogosphere
Saint Joseph’s University’s Office of Mission & Identity present the next installment in their Catholic Intellectual Series Ecclesia Virtualis: Catholics in the Blogosphere For the First Time Anywhere… Join us for a panel discussion on how the internet and blogs affect both the discourse on and the practice of Catholicism in America. Our panel features some of the leading voices on the Catholic Church in the blogosphere: Amy Welborn Author of the blog “Open Book“ Rocco Palmo Author of the blog “Whispers in the Loggia“ Grant Gallicho Associate Editor, Commonweal Panel Host: Bill McGarvey of BustedHalo.com *While we are not yet certain if the event will…
December 5th, 2004
Thoughts on sex and commitment
What’s the formula for good sex? TV shows offer one recipe. Take an attractive man or woman, add a nice restaurant dinner, stir in a few drinks and follow the trail of chemistry where it leads, and next thing you know you’ll both be lying back amid tousled sheets with smiles of satisfaction, having just had mind-blowing sex in which there were no awkward pauses and both people reached heights of bliss with no effort whatsoever. Know what? TV can be a huge, unabashed, pants-on-fire liar. One thing I know It’s hard to write a column about sex, shouldn’t a sex expert like Dr. Ruth be writing this? After all, I can only really speak about my own experience in this area. And no doubt there are some for…
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