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Rebecca Gallo is trying to put into practice the lessons she learned while walking The Camino. Follow along as she continues her spiritual journey — whatever that might mean.

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December 19th, 2012

The God Box


“What’s this?” I said, picking a book up from my friend Tara’s dresser.

“Oh — my friend gave it to me and Russ for our engagement. I haven’t read it yet though. It’s about a woman whose mother puts her prayers in a box, and the daughter tells about finding the boxes after she dies.”

I turned the book over and read the back cover. Then, I opened it up to read the synopsis on the inside cover. I put the book back on Tara’s dresser and filed away the thought that perhaps I could find time to read it in the next couple days — in between my duties as one of Tara’s bridesmaids.

The next day, with time on my hands before the photographer arrived, I headed out into the Orlando sunshine. I spread myself out on a patch of grass and started to read. I finished the book that day. But it took another month before I started my own God Box.

What is a God Box? Simply put, another way of doing something many of us already do. A friend is going through a difficult time and you say you’ll pray for him. Or a request comes into your e-mail inbox asking for prayers for someone. Usually, I just say a quick prayer right then as I know I’ll forget otherwise.

But what did Mary Lou Quinlan’s mother do? She scribbled her prayer on a piece of paper, dated it, and put it in a box — the God Box. Mary Lou knew about the box. She would overhear her mother talking on the phone to a friend and reassure that friend saying, “I’ll put it in the God Box.” She didn’t know until after her mother’s death, however, that there wasn’t just one God Box — she found many of them around her mother’s house. All filled with scribbled prayers on scraps of paper.

A couple weeks ago, while crying over my fears and worries, I did an excellent job emptying a tissue box. The next day, I looked at it and thought, “This would make the perfect God Box.”

A few days later, the opportunity for my first prayer came into my inbox. A friend updated me on what was going on in his life, and asked for prayers for he and his wife as they were both going through some medical difficulties. I grabbed a piece of scrap paper and scribbled down, “For ____’s eyesight and _____’s upcoming surgery. 11/13/12.” I folded it up and put it in my God Box. Another friend asked for support on Facebook. I wrote some words on the website and then scribbled a prayer for her on a piece of paper and put it in.

Eventually I added a few prayers for myself. Today I added my first prayer of gratitude.

I find my God Box is a concrete way of practicing the “Let go, Let God,” philosophy. I can say I’m leaving it up to God, but there’s something definitive to me about putting pen to paper and putting the worries, fears, anxieties, joys, and expectations in a box — saying, in effect, “I don’t know what to do or where to go with this … so I’m turning it over to you. Thanks.”

Doing so also reminds me of one of my favorite signs. It reads, “Good morning. This is God. I will be handling all of your problems today. I will not need your help. So, have a good day.”

To this I say, “Thanks. And while you’re at it, can you handle all the problems in my God Box?” God, of course, says, “No problem.”

What prayers would you put in a God Box today? Take a look around — empty boxes abound. Find one and start your own God Box.

The Author : Rebecca Gallo
Since 2012, Rebecca Gallo has walked the Camino de Santiago three times -- twice on a strict budget, and a third time traveling a little more luxuriously (private rooms with sheets instead of hostels with a sleeping bag). She enjoyed sharing her first journey and subsequent reflections with Busted Halo readers. Other tales of her adventures can be found at RenaissanceRebecca.com.
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  • Veronica

    I followed a link to this article…I love the idea of a “God box”! This past spring, for Lent, I got a small glass bowl, like a fishbowl, and used it as a “prayer bowl” for my 2nd grade CCE students. Every week, at the beginning of class, I let the kids take a light purple slip of paper and write down a prayer request. I told them not to sign their names. Before we dismissed class, I would take each slip out, read the request to the class, and then we would pray for those requests. It was a great way to fulfill a Lenten practice.

  • Stacey

    Love this idea, Rebecca. I may pass this along to my daughter as well. She’s a worrier, and I think this would be a comfort to her.

  • disqus_iA45lB0piP

    I am once again inspired by Rebecca to take a new spiritual path. I now have a use for at least one of the Christmas present boxes in the recycle pile. My first prayer is one of gratitude for my creative and courageous friend Rebecca.

  • http://www.facebook.com/sue.laurent Sue McCarthy Laurent

    This is a great idea. And I can think of no better time than Advent to start one myself! Thanks!

  • http://www.healthyspirituality.org Jean Wise

    love this idea. Thanks for sharing it.

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