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April 20th, 2005
If it’s this difficult, can it really be love?
Over dinner recently, a close friend told me she was second-guessing her three-year relationship. While she and her boyfriend were very committed to each other, they had been living in different countries for the last ...
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April 10th, 2005
Pure Sex, Pure Love
Here's a trick to try out on your next date: During dinner, start playing with something on your side of the table like the salt shaker or the candle. After a little while, gently push ...
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March 29th, 2005
When is the right time to bring up religion in a relationship?
Cindy and Peter met in January and they hit it off instantly. They were both into mystery novels and had long dinners debating politics. They started seeing each other twice or three times a week, ...
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March 10th, 2005
Why Girls Watch Sex & the City: It's more than the shoes, boys
Last summer, my boyfriend broke up with me. It was one of those almost-perfect relationships where you are well matched in everything, but there's just no spark. Immediately I ...
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March 5th, 2005
BustedHalo's new column on dating, relationships and marriage
There are more than 4,000 dating and relationship self-help books in print. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus has sold 30 million copies worldwide. And last month, relationship guru Dr. Phil McGraw hosted ...
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January 30th, 2005
Overqualified for Love: Are high achieving women at a disadvantage when looking for a spouse?
Emily is a tall 29-year-old blonde with great fashion sense who knows the bouncers at New York's hippest clubs. She graduated from an Ivy-League university with high honors in ...
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January 4th, 2005
Tackling the abortion issue without propaganda in school
Teaching morality to sixteen-year-old girls requires a lot of patience, particularly when it comes to issues that revolve around the bedroom. After all, when you are sixteen you have ...
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December 5th, 2004
Thoughts on sex and commitment
What's the formula for good sex?
TV shows offer one recipe. Take an attractive man or woman, add a nice restaurant dinner, stir in a few drinks and follow the trail of chemistry where it leads, ...
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August 7th, 2004
Young, Gay Catholics struggle to reconcile faith and sexual identity
Looking forward to a summer wedding, 28 year-old Ashley Dumas carried her wedding dress out of the closet and hung it on the door for all to see. ...
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July 6th, 2004
Struggling to forgive an ex-lover on her deathbed
"Can you come and see me?" said his ex-girlfriend over the phone months after they went through a bitter and hurtful breakup.
"And why would I want to do that?" ...
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May 10th, 2004
Women share their thoughts on Mary
Editor's note: Monday, August 15th is the Feast of the Assumption of the Virgin Mary. With this in mind we offer this ...
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April 3rd, 2004
I would do anything for love (but I won't do that)
"I can definitely see you as a priest," my friend told me."Thanks," I said. This was a helpful insight, since I'd like to be a priest. "But the thing ...
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March 3rd, 2004
Sexuality Is More Than What We Do Beneath the Sheets
Sex sells.
Or so they say. But I think "they" are wrong.
I think what they mean is that partly naked people, a hint of genitalia, and the bright (though often ...
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February 18th, 2004
or How to Survive a Trip on the Bi-Polar Express
*also proven effective for Holiday coping
Many people have a hard time with winter. Up North where I come from the days are short and gloomy. The cold is bitter and winter is long. The holidays, cloaked in joy and celebration ...
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January 29th, 2004
How does the Church speak to the experience of younger Catholics?
After a long weekend of bars, booze, and boys, I make it a point to attend Sunday night Mass. As I repent for any sins I may have committed in ...
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January 5th, 2004
The Adult Journey of a Child of Divorce
Lynn Cassella's profound experience as a child of divorce shines through in this small and practical guide for all those whose lives have been touched by divorce.
Divorce journeyCassella speaks of her own journey as a ...
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January 2nd, 2004
The problem with mom getting too candid about sex
A few months back, I had a disturbing conversation with my mother. It went something like this:
Mom: You mean to tell me you're going to marry someone you haven't had sex with?
Me: Yes. ...
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November 13th, 2003
House Hunting and the Complications of Compromise
I. Java Goddess and Garage Man
Renée: With our house-hunting completed, I can now list yet another way in which Jim and I are different.
Those comments ...
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November 1st, 2003
Kids Come From Sex, So Shouldn't More Be Better
When my wife and I had been married two years, people would ask me, "How long have you been married?" I'd hold up a pair of fingers and reply, "Two," take a slight pause, and ...
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September 29th, 2003
A Harbor for the Spiritually Alive to Talk about Sex
In an article I read from The Washington Monthly (reprinted in the recent Utne Reader on "Erotic Intelligence" ...
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