Tears for the Life of Jenny Sooter
The Dire Consequences of Rigid Religion
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Election year 2004 is upon us. As the news media starts to drop other stories and the frenzy begins, the idea of what important news we may miss due to this political preoccupation gives me pause.
What aren’t we hearing about that’s more important than the latest round of endorsements?
A different election year
One storythat fell through the cracks during the 2000 election debacle hit close to home for me.
Lost among the recounts and court battles of November 2000, I had to do a fair amount of online digging to even pull up the local press coverage, finally unearthing a headline at the Kansas City Star web site: “Northland church grieves deaths of pastor’s wife, daughter.“
The write-up was a simple one. Mary Lee Sooter, 56, had shot and killed her daughter, 24-year-old Jenny Sooter, before turning the gun on herself in the downstairs hallway of the suburban Kansas City parsonage of the Eagle Heights Baptist Church. Husband and father, the Rev. Tom Sooter, was next door in the church fellowship hall, leading a men’s prayer breakfast.
Jenny Sooter and me
I knew Jenny Sooter back in high school. Our families were acquainted, and she attended the Eagle Heights Christian school, a “sister ministry” to the Tri-City Baptist Church, whose high school I attended.
As juniors and seniors, our
schools often combined for events and chapel services when well-known evangelists came to town. These were those fabled Midwestern K-12 church schools that make Footloose look like Fire Island. Far more concerned with haircuts and hemlines, the state of one’s soul was touted as the ultimate focus, when in reality it was of much less value than the outward, legalistic conservatism that one projected via clothing that adhered strictly to the dress codes.
The ways to lose your soul
As I searched through the news accounts and police reports from my desk in Los Angeles, I felt a knot form and then explode in the pit of my stomach. Detective Andrew Dorothy of the Kansas City police department told reporters on November 6, 2000, that “[Mary Lee Sooter] had scriptures written out beside her bed” and she talked in her notes about how she hated the rebelliousness of her daughter.
I called my dad from my office that day and he informed me that Rev. Sooter had been planning to resign for weeks due to his daughter’s desire to leave the church and move out of their family home. “You see, son?” Dad said. “This just goes to show you that we are all capable of unspeakable evil when we take our eyes off the Savior.”
I wanted to scream at the sky and throw the phone to the ground. “How can you watch this happen and miss the point?” I wanted to yell. “Mary Lee Sooter didn’t ‘take her eyes off of God’ and then shoot her daughter! Her eyes were so full of God that she was blinded to the difference between shooting her daughter with a gun in north Kansas City in 2000 AD, and the ancient Levitical law that ordered rebellious sons and daughters to be stoned to death at the gates of the city.”
But I didn’t yell. And I didn’t scream. I just quietly hung up the phone and sat at my desk, and cried.
When religion hurts
I weep for you, Jenny Sooter; not only for your death, but also for your life. I sat with you in those same pews. I heard those same sermons. I shook in the same fear of a vindictive God who would send me to an eternal punishment for renting the wrong movie, wearing the wrong clothes, listening to the wrong music, or sleeping with the wrong gender. And finally, I too saw the holes in the logic of the violent dogma we were brainwashed by, and I made an escape.
I mourn the life that you will never know, Jenny—free from floral-print dresses and constant fear. I wish that I had been there to help you pack your boxes into your car and move them into your new place. A place where there were fewer straight lines, and more windows with different views of the world, and other colors on the walls besides black and white.
Tears drawing from the NIEHS web site of the National Insitutes of Health.
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I was Heidi Herrin @ the time of Eagle Heights….I agree strongly with your article….I have suffered greatly psychologically after leaving that cult ..but have finally found peace with a God far far different than the one I was made to believe in. I was in class with your sister Michelle. I’m glad you are doing well..I was thinking about Jenny the other day and what happend to her and I was looking on the web and came to your article.. You certaintly arent’ alone in your views..I just wish there was something I could do for the kids who are there today. I’m glad you are doing well; it takes a lot of courage to break away and be who you really are.
Add another ex-eagle heightser’s agreement here. I, just like Heidi was thinking about Jenny the other day and surfing for articles and came across yours. I was in class with your sister Michelle as well. It’s taken alot of soul-searching and self-analysis to undo the mental and psychological damage done by that place. But what really scares me is how much more political and social power the fundamentalist movement has now compared to when I was growing up.
Friends of mine watch the documentary “Jesus Camp” and think that it has to be fake. I have to explain to them all the time that, no, places like these are real and probably even worse than depicted.
I’m glad to see that there’s at least a little corner on the web where Jenny’s memory is alive and untainted by religious bullshit.
I also went to Eagle Heights. I was in the sixth grade and at school the morning “the tragedy” happened. I am also glad to see this here. I was just thinking of how traumatic that event was. I feel sorry that I was too young to really know Jenny. To this day I still have trouble separating reality from the the religious extremism that is spread in that cult. In my opinion the real “tragedy” is the fact that few learned from that terrible day. Most remained stuck in their same ways and told those of us who questioned that we were “worldly” or “lacked faith” and never considered that there are more important things to be concerned with than haircuts clothing choices and Christian attitudes.
Wow, I look at all of these postings, and I remember all of you. My family was close with the Sooter family. They were in our home many times. Jenny was one year older than me. We had a casual friendship. I was living in Indiana when I heard what had happened. I will never forget it. The events surrounding that situation have been one of the defining moments in my life, that set me out on a journey of self discovery. It is truly a heart wrenching account. I weep for all those (some close to me) who are still caught up in that way of thinking, too afraid to step away. My God is bigger than all of that.
i will never forget Jenny or that day. I am still haunted by this to this day. I was a member at EH for years, and my children went to school there. Jenny babysat my daughter. I am so glad to be free from the legalism that bound this church, and so very sorry for the senselessness of this, and for all the family and children traumatized
I began attending EH when it was still Tri-City North. I knew Jenny and am friends with her sister. I can see the problem with legalism and the trouble it has caused my extended family. They hold alot of grudges to this day. It has made me realize all over again that being a christian is a relationship with Christ and you can’t depend on mere man. You must remember that Mary Lee struggled with mental issues in her extended family; I believe that played a role in this as well. I am not excusing her, but know that she was under tremendous pressure with a difficult medical history from her brother to tend with. I encourage all who read this to remember that the biggest problem in this situation is that people got their eyes off of God and onto a man. Jenny was a dear, sweet girl who was just trying to find her way when her young life was cut off without a future. I pray for healing for all involved; I know it covers a plethora of people. God bless you all from the God of all comfort.
I went to Eagle Heights for a couple of years & was a few grades behind Jenny but I saw her around alot & of course her dad taught taught us Bible class. All I can say is that the situation is very sad but I can’t say I’m completely shocked by it. I agree with the person who wrote this article wholeheartedly. Thankfully my parents pulled me out of there after a couple of years but I always told people that place was like a cult. What’s ironic is there was a genuine cult across the street from the school that I remember students & teachers always talking about in disgust. And I agree that eagle heights did far more to damage faith that help it. They taught only that God is judgemental & someone to fear..didn’t put much emphasis on the positive attributes of God. Hopefully the school has changed a lot or people stay far fat way from there.
I was in 8th grade when this happened. I still remember the look on Mr. Franseen’s face as we drove into the parking lot.
I don’t regret my time at EH, it was a tough time, but I made it, and now I know why legalism is completely un-biblical. The whole Sooter incident seemed to be a long time in the making. I’ve since spoken to many childhood friends of Jenny, and shockingly they were not too surprised over what happened. Can you imagine a person not being too surprised over a murder/suicide? But that seems to be the consensus. Pray for the kids still at EH, and pray for the families affected by this tragedy.
is this the same man that wrote the book titled “the hole of no hope?
My brothers and I attended Tri-City North which became Eagle Heights. I was the youngest and probably the one of the 3 of us that was most affected by the cult. As a result of the questions that I had (a 6th grader at the time) my mother went to Tom Sooter with those questions and our family was ex-communicated from the church and I was taken out of the school. During one of the services, everyone was told they could not speak to any of our family unless they had Tom Sooters permission prior. I also have suffered psychologically from this. I knew Jenny. I remember hearing about her death and I cried that day. I love your article and it’s great to know that there are others who realize what is going on there.
I’ve also gone to a church that was legalistic. After many years I realized I was “man pleasing.” Truth is truth…you can’t get away from biblical truth!!!! But legalism is man made. I’m sorry for the Sooter family. As someone mention…there was problems in the extended family, and possibly problems in the family that went unchecked. I believe he is the man that wrote the hole of no hope! Because of Him, Liz
Where is that guy Sooter? He got off scott free. He should be in jail because he caused a murder and a suicide. He caused it to happen and he should have to pay for what he done. Sooter was an X cop, that is why it was kept all hush, hush. No one talked about it and to this day no one will talk about it. Everyone who worked at that school yapped their mouth off everyday all day long about the virtue of following Pastor Sooter’s rules and directions. Yet when everything he stood for and demanded from everyone fell apart on one very sad day, no one wanted to open their mouth.
They are all guilty, every single one of them because they supported him and followed him as if he were God himself. I took my son out of that school a few years before Jenny was murdered because I was not going to become, or allow my son to become a Sooterite. Jesus died for my sins, not Sooter. Yes I am still angry after all this time because Jenny was my sons friend and he suffered knowing how she died. I’m angry because there were so many goody Christians who supported Sooter and gave him the power he had. Today they are still living their lives like they did when it happened, business as usual. EH is still going strong with many of the same people still running it. No one learned anything except to maybe hold your temper.
Bro. Sooter is now traveling the country as a counselor. He was on staff at my church for a few years and was my sunday school teacher. I have to take issue with the term “legalism” being used by so many. Legalism is those who believe in a “works” salvation. While it appears many on here did not like the “standards” that Bro. Sooter expected as Pastor I would encourage you to be careful not to fall into the trap that you can do whatever you want, with whoever you want and there are no consequences. Bro. Sooter is a wonderful counselor and friend. On an hour ride one night he told me of all the things that had happened to his family including his daughter- it goes much deeper than what many of you seem to know about. I thank God for Bro. Sooter and the wisdom God has given him. I’m sorry for those of you who see it differently, not saying you are wrong, but the man you are describing is not the man I know.
W. Wubben
Sooter traveling the country counseling is as appalling as Andrea Yates husband doing the same. I knew this family, this mother, this daughter and how Pastor Sooter brainwashed them He ruled his family with fear of damnation and put all the responsibility of his wife because thier TWENTY-FOUR year old ADULT daughter was moving out of their home…and leaving the church. TWENTY FOUR and “rebellious” because she was moving out. I assure YOU if you have only heard his lament of this….you W don’t have all the facts, as a matter of fact, you have NONE of the facts. This tragedy is as much Pastor Sooter’s fault. He drove her to it, disregarded her need for REAL PROFESSIONAL counseling. And now he makes me sick making a ministry out of this awful tragedy and marrying a woman much younger than himself so he can control her as well. You know NOTHING of what this man is really like.
Kitty Boil, I don’t know who you are but God Bless you for standing up. I feel just like you do and I am not ashamed or afraid to say what I believe. I did not know this man was going around the country as a counselor. To think that he would have the nerve to try and tell others how to salve their problems is sick. He has no business in any ministry where he can manipulate peoples minds while they are weak. No one in their right mind would let him if they knew what he has caused. God will, or has already forgiven him for what he has done to his wife and child. He did it, it was his fault, he is to blame. To allow him to be in the position of influence of other people again is a crime waiting for a chance to happen.
My question is why? Why would he want to repeat the past? If he was a nut back then, he is still a nut. I can’t get the picture out of my mind of Jenny being killed by her mother. I makes me mad at Sooter every time I think of it.
i just did some harmless re-search, of the mystery that will never leave… people @ eagle heights who dismiss this story are in their own little world… no mother kills their daughter for “rebelious” reasons… geez… i would be dead by now!!! people over look things because he’s a pastor, she was rebelious… BULL S***!!! there was a straight up murder here & all you religious people are sooooo… ate up that you can’t see it. i’m sooooo over it.
Wow! We’ve been involved in this type of church our whole dating and married life. (The first 2 not quite as extreme) We are currently going no where and examining all the things we were taught that we were afraid to question because we didn’t want to be “doubters” or “betrayers of God.” We went to a church associated with this one. Our oldest son was always in trouble in every church we attended. The last one even more so. As we witnessed an older, very nice teen struggle to the point that his parents shunned him, we did not want to go in that direction. We began to ask the questions to each other that we were afraid to admit we had. Choosing to do things differently, we began hearing sermons that were obviously directed towards us parents who were “giving up,” “lowering our standards,” etc. One was even given with tears. My husband had it, and in the car home, hesaid, “I don’t want to come back.” I said, “Well, let’s not!” And we haven’t since. We didn’t realize how oppressed, miserable and how little we laughed until we left! We considered putting our “rebellious” son into this school (almost an hour away), but we heard a strang story about a mother who murdered her daughter. We were told she was involved in Satanism, an that the moth probably didn’t recognize her because demons can change one’s appearance. We thought that odd, so I asked our pastor’s wife about it. I wasn’t going to put my kid in a school like that! Her response, pretty much nothing. I asked her what happened there, and she was not going to say a word. I felt bad, like I was trying to gossip or something. But also, we chose not to put our kid in school there. We did the most unthinkable, put him in a “liberal” christian school. And now, we have totally “dropped” our standards because I homeschool NONE of my children and they are all in a public school. I’m just sorting out thoughts and beliefs and came across this article. We were told none of this when we asked, and this pastor is viewed as a Saint who has endured such difficulty with so much grace. Very sad. I’m angry at myself for staying in places like this for so long. I think I was looking for the “happy, perfect” family, and in my pursuit, I was getting the opposite. MY oldest was affected the most, and I hope one day he will forgive me for all the stupidity I believed and followed!
The funeral was very sad as Mary lee was lifted up as being a saint that just “snapped”. Very little was said about Jenny and her casket/remains were sort of out off to the side while Mary lee’s remains were the more centered before the stage. A strange and sad eulogy followed that was given by the son in law something about God knowing that all that happened – would happen. As if it made it all right.
Mary lee Sooter lived in the flesh not in the spirit and she had for years.
Tom Sooter lives in the flesh and did not learn anything to profit and share with another.
Jenny Sooter is dead.
If bro sooter is truly the “monster” some of you make him out to be, then why does he even bother to travel the country and help people who have endured suffering like him. Nothing he’s saying is a lie. He has really helped people in our church, and some of you people posting comments are probably satanists. Not speaking directly to anyone, but your lies are not based on fact, only rebellion, which, is as the sin of witchcraft, which some of you probably know quite well…
Anonymous isn’t it strange you are the only one that doesn’t have a name. Very Strange! All the personal stories here and the pain is clear and the healing that has taken place over the years in these peoples lives all have a name.
I was there and I wrote the story. A story that changed my life for the better. Breaking through was the most wonderful feeling in the world. Talk about Born Again! Free, Free at last!
I know bro tom sooter. He is a great man of God. let me remind you in gods eyes we are all guilty. I have herd the tragic story of what happend and I have talked with brother sooter. Im not trying to explain away what happend. Obvously there was some sin envolved (the wages of sin is death.) Men let me remide you that when you look upon a woman and lust after her in your heart you have already in gods eyes commited adultry. he whos ses he is without sin is a liar. If we juged our lives by gods law “most of us” would be lieing, stealing, adulturs, some of us murdurs. let me remind you. he who is WHITHOUT sin let HIM cast the first stone. I herd his message. Brother sooter is not a pefict man, But he gives a message from a pefict book. So insted of trying to sqay what an aufle humman being he is why dont you pray for him he realy is doing a great work!!! What are YOU doing to help people???
It is interesting that this conversation has gone on for so long. I went to EH for 6 years. I have been driving by the school lately on my way to work and thinking about Jenny. I know so many people who have wounds from this organization – wounds from not being accepted, for not being good enough. I too have vivid memories…as a 10 year old trying to hide when I saw someone from school at Wal-mart because I wasn’t wearing cullotes, being told I was an adulterous woman (when I was 14, by another 14 y.o.) because my knee cap was showing. Thankfully I know more about God’s grace now!
I have searched for years to find the “real” story of this tragedy. I met Tom Sooter at a church I attended. He came in with great accolades and with mystery surrounding his move. We were led to believe that this tragedy lie completely in his wife’s lap. I never bought it. I was in the what I call extreme IFB group. The kind where suicide was an easier path to take than divorce. The kind where the pastor withdrew himself as your pastor because your ex divorced you and yet the pastor persisted that your place was with him. The kind that turned a blind eye to the abuse going on in a home and still expected you to “hold on”. Legalism is NOT adding anything to salvation…that’s the definition we were taught. Legalism is anything you do to earn God’s favor. It’s where laws and codes are kept to ensure God loves you and accepts you. Look it up!! Mr. Sooter married a dear lady I knew from a prior church. She was vibrant and loved the Lord and her first husband had died. She had prayed for years to marry a man in the ministry so when Mr. Sooter came along she felt her prayers had been answered. Go talk to the lady today and see how vibrant and happy she is. I know her daughters…I know she is NOT happy but is miserable. She suffers in silence. She has been cut off from some of her children because they live a lifestyle considered contrary to their world. Her children have always been her world and that’s what these people are known for doing…cutting people off from family. They call it separation. People are willingly blind and when faced with truth they will defend a lie simply because they can’t even fathom questioning anything outside the box. If I sound angry…I am…I knew in my heart of hearts that this man is NOT the man of God everyone thinks he is.
wow, casey I feel your pain, and sorry to hear about the new ms sooter. i wondered how all that worked out… Interesting you think you were led to believe that fault laid in his wifes lap, because at the church where he was pastor, many thought it was his daughters fault….His wife was ‘protecting’ his daughter from satan. At the funeral we were asked (by tom) to please forgive them(his wife and daughter)…
it will forever be a mystery to us, but not to God. The outcome is not a mystery, and will affect many for the rest of their lives. I am glad that God is all about Grace, because we his children often fail miserably.
I attended a college that Sooter worked at. He told us students his daughter, Jenny was taken to a satanic ritual and had blood poured on her by a family member of HIS. She was rebellious in her teen years supposedly and his wife couldn’t handle it and then she committed the act. He remarried the current Mrs. Sooter about TEN MONTHS after all of this. He said something that still bugs me, “I am at peace with what happened to my wife and daughter that I could go lay on the spot where they died.” Who says that??!!! I also had quite a few conversations with him. He was always trying to get into my head and convince ME I was a rebellious teen. I honestly had no idea and still to this day what he was trying to do. I know both my parents and MY OWN pastor were in shock when I told them of this and immediately left the college. It is tragic what happened to Jenny and her mother. I would have to agree the way he and the church I attended pushed things on people were too harsh. They also looked the other way when an ADULT male was having sexual relations with a teen from the Anchor home. Instead of contacting the proper authorities they let him leave. I am glad I got away from there when I did. I am saved and believe in God 100% but that man and church was too crazy for my taste.
I was only 12 when this tragedy happened. I don’t remember the details. I heard the gunshots, and we were all ushered into a room where they kept us for a few hours until the police were gone I guess. They prayed and read passages from the Bible, and didn’t tell us what was going on. I remember being confused and scared. I never liked that place. I spent the first 16 or so years of my life trying to be perfect. I heard on a daily basis how imperfect I was. My shirt was too tight, my skirt was too short, my attitude was disrespectful. I assure you, I was a good kid. I realized one day that I was never going to be happy if I believed them about what was important in life. I hold on to the main beliefs about God and Christianity, but I have since realized that God is not the kind of God who would remind children on a daily basis that they aren’t good enough. God is not the kind of God that would require you to go stand on a strangers doorstep, and tell them in a 5 minute speal that Jesus died for their sins and if they don’t believe, they’ll go to hell…a lot of the people that I went to school with have gone either one of two ways, 1) on to college like EH to marry other brainwashed people with no idea about the real world, and raise kids back at EH to keep the cycle going…or 2) having children out of wedlock, strippers, drug and alcohol abusers, etc. I’m NOT saying this is the only 2 options, because I like to think that I myself have found some sort of happy medium, BUT, from the comments I’ve read I see that you all too, have been taught the same things I was, and if you think about your peers that you know, how many of those children who were constantly condemned and made to feel like they were never good enough turned to drugs, alcohol, and unhealthy relationships for fulfillment? I’m just trying to provoke some thought here…Back to what this article is about, I knew Jenny, she watched me in the nursery, and helped out in my Sunday School Classes. She was murdered, and her beautiful life was taken from her before she was even able to experience it. This life was taken from her by her parents…BOTH of them. I don’t care who pulled the trigger. She was told that as a Christian young lady she was supposed to live at home until she got married, and that she was supposed to stay under her father’s authority until that authority was transferred to her husband. She was murdered in cold blood and the blame was placed on HER, and her mother. SHE was possessed by demons, SHE was rebellious…She seemed pretty normal to me. I don’t know many unmarried 24 year olds still living at home, well, except for back at good ole’ EH. I personally think the whole demon stuff was a cover up. Mr. Sooter was obsessed with “spiritual warfare”. My mind is not made up. I have heard people who think that Mr. Sooter pulled the trigger himself. He used to be a cop, and I was told he used to work in the homicide dept. Seems like a double murder you could pin on your wife would be the perfect way out of a marriage and church. I don’t know what I believe, but what I do know is that only a few days after the murders I heard him whistling while walking down the hallway. Maybe it was my child-like innocence, but that gave me the most awful gut-wrenching feeling I think I’ve ever had. Faith in God gives us hope, a purpose, and something to look forward to in the afterlife. It helps us with our moral decisions and important life choices. Hypocritical religion is what these people shove down their childrens’ throats, and ignore that the guilt and feelings of inadequacy are what end up fueling these “rebellious” teenagers fires. There is tragedy everywhere in this story. The idea that Mr. Sooter is still traveling around and counselling is shocking, appalling, and terrifying. He married 10 months after losing his wife and youngest daughter in a murder-suicide, and I was told by somebody who went and visited and met his new wife that she was wearing Jenny’s clothes. This man is a monster. I just wish more people realized it.
J. L., I know the instance you speak of with the staff member. The church paid for his family to move away and the family of the girl in the Anchor Home were paid a large sum of money so this situation would not have to be reported.
I’ve read all of the comments here and I couldn’t sit here and not reply. I went to E.H. for several years. Jenny was a year older then I was but we had several classes together. She was also a very good friend of mine. If you knew Mrs.Sooter, the REAL one, not the “new” ms.Sooter, then you know what she was like. She was very sweet, shy,& quiet. She was always kind to everyone. I truly believe she was brainwashed as well by Tom Sooter. Alot of us were. Tom Sooter is literally the most manipulative, cunning, sociopath. I’m curious why nobody has mentioned or talked about The Letter he sent out to exclusive members at the church explaining what REALLY happened that day.I wish someone would be bold enough to reveal the letter to the investigators or the news, I truly believe Tom Sooter wouldn’t be a free man these days. I personally read this letter because it was sent to my husbands family. In the letter Tom stated that for years Jenny was possessed by the devil. He spoke in great length & details of a few excorcisms he & members of the church did in thier own home to Jenny. One of the stories he spoke of was during one of the excorcisms, absolutely chilling. He said that Jenny was on ontop of her bed, on all fours like a dog growling like a demon. That was just one example. I to believe he wrote this letter and used it as a coverup. He stated Jenny was possessed for years, including the time I and everyone else who knew her.He was able to keep it out of the media etc. because of the connections he had with KCPD homocide dept.Nobody talks about it because they’re afraid to. E.H. has more lies and coverup’s then some of you may know or realize and it needs to all be heard & exposed to give justice to Jenny and all the lives that man has haunted and destroyed. The people who consider joining or have joined since this tragic murder have the right to know!It doesn’t just stop with Jenny! EH has many secrets. I’m not suprised either that He used demonic possession as a excuse, there’s also been CHILDREN that were molested by one of their teachers in which Tom Sooter and EH principal NEVER REPORTED to the authorities, they made those involved shut their mouths and told the teacher he must never return. that teacher is still teaching in another state! Back to Jenny. She was a DEAR FRIEND to me and I can honestly say without a doubt there’s NO WAY she was ever possessed by the devil. Jenny was RADIANT. She had a beautiful heart & soul and it showed. Jenny was kind hearted, she truly cared about everyone. Anytime someone was sad or upset she was the first person to go try to comfort them. However if you were upset and tried to confide to her father
Tom Sooter, he would turn it around on you, as if you were wordly, or satan was attacking you leaving you terrified, confused, and hopeless. Seems more like he was the one that was actually possessed! he was OBSESSED with spiritual warfare and still is to this day. It scares me to hear he is out there counseling and rebuilding the cults he has made it to be. i truly believe he is some kind of false “prophet” He is a MONSTER and my prayers go out to all the people who are being mislead by him to this day. the “Anonymous” who wrote the last comment on here, I’m grateful and proud of you for telling the truth. I know almost all of you who has left a comment and I just want to tell you I’m proud of you also for telling the truth. i pray for each of you and I KNOW you have been hurt and manipulated by Tom Sooter and some of the members at EH, some more than others, but I hope you all know- that time in all our lives should be a lesson on how not to be. There are some family’s at EH that are TRUE Christians, but as for the people that have helped Tom cover up all his lies and manipulations will be judged by God and God alone. Tom Sooter will be judged by God and God alone. Don’t let that hoorific and traumatic time ruin your faith in God. I pray all of you will keep telling the truth and that Jenny will get the justice she deserves! She was an INNOCENT CHILD. There is alot of holes in this, we may not ever know the full truth of it but if we don’t raise our voices and connect all the dots, more lives will be destroyed by Tom and more people will be brainwashed.
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