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		<title>By: L</title>
		<link>http://bustedhalo.com/features/unintended-consequences/comment-page-1#comment-11506</link>
		<dc:creator>L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 07:21:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I happen to know the writer, and the many, many good deeds she continues to do (while still being mindful of the potential repercussions on others.)  This is a lesson we all need to learn. Still having such an open-hearted friend always reminds me to err on the side of generosity!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I happen to know the writer, and the many, many good deeds she continues to do (while still being mindful of the potential repercussions on others.)  This is a lesson we all need to learn. Still having such an open-hearted friend always reminds me to err on the side of generosity!</p>
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		<title>By: anna smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>anna smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 04:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think in the end we need to remember that we have to give a helping hand to anyone who needs it and any creature,but be aware of the issues that may crop up i know i have open my heart and home to many creatures and humans and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn&#039;t. i believe these situations are put in front of us to learn from our mistakes and to take the goodness of the situation as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think in the end we need to remember that we have to give a helping hand to anyone who needs it and any creature,but be aware of the issues that may crop up i know i have open my heart and home to many creatures and humans and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn&#8217;t. i believe these situations are put in front of us to learn from our mistakes and to take the goodness of the situation as well.</p>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://bustedhalo.com/features/unintended-consequences/comment-page-1#comment-8587</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 20:29:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something similar happened to some friends of mine. Though in their case, they didn&#039;t have kids, nor other animals. 

So, that&#039;s ok, right? Well...

Instead, they cared for the dog for several years, and it bit a new renter of their upstairs apartment and sent her to the hospital. Funny... it was even a German Shepard.  They were very fortunate that the renter in question didn&#039;t sue them.

Indeed, a friend of this renter even lied to the police to keep this dog from being put down.  She was bit too, but since she didn&#039;t need stitches, she could keep it from the authorities. Neither the renter nor the friend of the renter were violent or threatening to the dog.  The amazing thing is that the friend of said renter did not know the owners of the dog at all.

So... was that lie a good deed?

I puzzle over some of this, because I have another friend who takes in abused animals as a matter of course, and under his care, the animals actually somehow heal emotionally. Twitchy, violent animals become docile pets over a matter of two years. 

 Yet, this dog did not, even after living for years with loving caregivers. 

I don&#039;t know much about animal psychology. There&#039;s more going on than instinct, though goodness knows they aren&#039;t as complex as humans. Humans are harder to read, I think, and some don&#039;t know themselves from animals.

I really have to wonder if these German Shepards were trained to fight like pitbulls, where as the animals my animal training friend takes in are abused in a simpler, more straightforward way.  

One of the best dogs I&#039;ve ever kept was  obviously seriously abused, (and abandoned) and yet he was harmless. 

After a few years of loving care, the ranch that took him in reported him to be a wonderful dog, even trustworthy with children.  

I think the lesson here is to keep in mind where the risks are when you attempt to do good.  Know the situations and the potential pitfalls.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something similar happened to some friends of mine. Though in their case, they didn&#8217;t have kids, nor other animals. </p>
<p>So, that&#8217;s ok, right? Well&#8230;</p>
<p>Instead, they cared for the dog for several years, and it bit a new renter of their upstairs apartment and sent her to the hospital. Funny&#8230; it was even a German Shepard.  They were very fortunate that the renter in question didn&#8217;t sue them.</p>
<p>Indeed, a friend of this renter even lied to the police to keep this dog from being put down.  She was bit too, but since she didn&#8217;t need stitches, she could keep it from the authorities. Neither the renter nor the friend of the renter were violent or threatening to the dog.  The amazing thing is that the friend of said renter did not know the owners of the dog at all.</p>
<p>So&#8230; was that lie a good deed?</p>
<p>I puzzle over some of this, because I have another friend who takes in abused animals as a matter of course, and under his care, the animals actually somehow heal emotionally. Twitchy, violent animals become docile pets over a matter of two years. </p>
<p> Yet, this dog did not, even after living for years with loving caregivers. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know much about animal psychology. There&#8217;s more going on than instinct, though goodness knows they aren&#8217;t as complex as humans. Humans are harder to read, I think, and some don&#8217;t know themselves from animals.</p>
<p>I really have to wonder if these German Shepards were trained to fight like pitbulls, where as the animals my animal training friend takes in are abused in a simpler, more straightforward way.  </p>
<p>One of the best dogs I&#8217;ve ever kept was  obviously seriously abused, (and abandoned) and yet he was harmless. </p>
<p>After a few years of loving care, the ranch that took him in reported him to be a wonderful dog, even trustworthy with children.  </p>
<p>I think the lesson here is to keep in mind where the risks are when you attempt to do good.  Know the situations and the potential pitfalls.</p>
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		<title>By: Dee Burke</title>
		<link>http://bustedhalo.com/features/unintended-consequences/comment-page-1#comment-7837</link>
		<dc:creator>Dee Burke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 14:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s so hard to tell the stories of our mistakes and I really appreciate your willingness to tell yours.  After making a very big mistake of my own, I guess I thought I&#039;d repay some karmic debt by agreeing to take in a cast-off 2-year-old Great Pyrenees (her name was Grace (!) and she&#039;d been crated most of her life---she didn&#039;t even answer to her name).  I had everything in readiness (bowls, food, VERY large crate, etc.), but still quickly found I was not to be the saint of rescued Great Pyrenees, as I&#039;d hoped.  I couldn&#039;t do it, with a full time job and a full time family. It&#039;s a gift to be humbled again and again.  I can never &quot;repay&quot; my debts.  Grace comes in so many ways---although, in my case, the dog wasn&#039;t it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s so hard to tell the stories of our mistakes and I really appreciate your willingness to tell yours.  After making a very big mistake of my own, I guess I thought I&#8217;d repay some karmic debt by agreeing to take in a cast-off 2-year-old Great Pyrenees (her name was Grace (!) and she&#8217;d been crated most of her life&#8212;she didn&#8217;t even answer to her name).  I had everything in readiness (bowls, food, VERY large crate, etc.), but still quickly found I was not to be the saint of rescued Great Pyrenees, as I&#8217;d hoped.  I couldn&#8217;t do it, with a full time job and a full time family. It&#8217;s a gift to be humbled again and again.  I can never &#8220;repay&#8221; my debts.  Grace comes in so many ways&#8212;although, in my case, the dog wasn&#8217;t it.</p>
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		<title>By: Esmeralda Garza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Esmeralda Garza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 20:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My grandson Alijah, who is 2 years old, Kaiser, my german shepherd, and Henry, my cat, live in my home.  My perspective is that I wouldn&#039;t take in any person or animal that would endanger any of them. Taking care of all of God&#039;s creatures includes those in your home.  Loving and caring for your neighbor includes loving and caring for your family.  I can&#039;t fathom any situation that calls for christian love and charity that would require compromising the safety of the people and animals in your care or that would bring about &quot;unintended consequences&quot;.  God doesn&#039;t call us to do that.  The point of this article is lost on me.  I&#039;m new to this website, and there was no inspiration to this story.  There was no insight that was gained.  I only found it heartbreaking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My grandson Alijah, who is 2 years old, Kaiser, my german shepherd, and Henry, my cat, live in my home.  My perspective is that I wouldn&#8217;t take in any person or animal that would endanger any of them. Taking care of all of God&#8217;s creatures includes those in your home.  Loving and caring for your neighbor includes loving and caring for your family.  I can&#8217;t fathom any situation that calls for christian love and charity that would require compromising the safety of the people and animals in your care or that would bring about &#8220;unintended consequences&#8221;.  God doesn&#8217;t call us to do that.  The point of this article is lost on me.  I&#8217;m new to this website, and there was no inspiration to this story.  There was no insight that was gained.  I only found it heartbreaking.</p>
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		<title>By: Christy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 19:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! That previous comment was incredibly harsh!

Being someone who appreciates &amp; cares for all of God&#039;s creatures as well, I totally understand where Frances is coming from. I have taken in strange animals to my home on previous occasion, not even thinking about the consequences to my own pets. I think this is sage advice. We need to think very clearly about whether we have the capacity to help someone or something before we jump in head first.

Rescuing strays dogs &amp; cats is akin to working with the troubled youth I work with on a regular basis. I always have to analyze the situation: If I intervene in the issue, will I cause more harm than good?

I guess it seems simple as a Christian to jump in with guns a blazing, ready to help out, but Christ didn&#039;t call us to be cowboys. But I digress.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! That previous comment was incredibly harsh!</p>
<p>Being someone who appreciates &amp; cares for all of God&#8217;s creatures as well, I totally understand where Frances is coming from. I have taken in strange animals to my home on previous occasion, not even thinking about the consequences to my own pets. I think this is sage advice. We need to think very clearly about whether we have the capacity to help someone or something before we jump in head first.</p>
<p>Rescuing strays dogs &amp; cats is akin to working with the troubled youth I work with on a regular basis. I always have to analyze the situation: If I intervene in the issue, will I cause more harm than good?</p>
<p>I guess it seems simple as a Christian to jump in with guns a blazing, ready to help out, but Christ didn&#8217;t call us to be cowboys. But I digress.</p>
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		<title>By: Esmeralda Garza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Esmeralda Garza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 20:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I found this story very disturbing.  Why would anyone endanger the lives of their children and pets by bringing in an animal that may be dangerous into their home?  It&#039;s infuriating that the cat was in his home, &quot;safe&quot;, when a strange animal was brought into its home and basically killed it!  The dog was welcomed into the home!  The difference between the dog and Jack Abbott is that men are created in the image of God, and we hold onto the hope that there is goodness in all men.  Animals are animals.  They&#039;re not people.  They are driven by animal instincts.  It&#039;s ridiculous to even compare the two.  Thank God that dog didn&#039;t attack your children!!  Honestly!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found this story very disturbing.  Why would anyone endanger the lives of their children and pets by bringing in an animal that may be dangerous into their home?  It&#8217;s infuriating that the cat was in his home, &#8220;safe&#8221;, when a strange animal was brought into its home and basically killed it!  The dog was welcomed into the home!  The difference between the dog and Jack Abbott is that men are created in the image of God, and we hold onto the hope that there is goodness in all men.  Animals are animals.  They&#8217;re not people.  They are driven by animal instincts.  It&#8217;s ridiculous to even compare the two.  Thank God that dog didn&#8217;t attack your children!!  Honestly!!</p>
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