Busted Halo
googling god
The Busted Halo Question Box
Ask our spiritual experts virtually anything!
This is the place where you can ask all of those burning questions that you wouldn't dare ask in person. We will post questions here (using your byline only with permission); we guarantee an answer to everyone.

Have your own question? Then pitch it to us!

Caitlin Kennell Kim
Fr. Rick Malloy, SJ
General Questions
Fr. Tom Ryan, CSP
Ecumenical, Interfaith
Neela Kale
Culture, Moral Theology
Ann Naffziger, M.A., M.Div.
Mike Hayes
Our readers asked:

Is interfaith marriage a threat to religion’s survival? Why or why not?

Rev. Leo A. Walsh, S.T.D. Answers:

Yes, it is. Almost all world religions prohibit interreligious marriage or severely restrict it. They do this for several good reasons. First, it is necessary for the cohesion of the family. The old adage, “The family who prays together, stays together,” is more than just a nice platitude. When a family is united in faith, it is united at its very core. Interfaith families have to deal with this lack of cohesion which lies at the very foundation of the family. Second, and related to this, sad experience has shown that interreligious marriages fail at more than three times the rate of marriages where couples share the same faith. Third, experience has also shown that there is a real, grave danger that one or both parties will lose their faith altogether. All too often, an interreligious couple will avoid conflicts surrounding religion by ceasing all religious practice. Sometimes, for the sake of harmony, one partner will agree to convert to the faith of their spouse, even though they do not agree with it. In such situations, conflict is inevitable.

For these reasons, the Church prohibits interreligious marriage. That being said, the number of couples approaching the Church who are seeking an interfaith marriage has become increasingly common. The competent diocesan authority (i.e. the bishop or his delegate) may grant a dispensation from this prohibition, but each case is judged on its own merits and there are no guarantees that a dispensation will be given. In any event, if a couple is getting serious about their relationship, one’s faith should be the center of the conversation.

The Author : Rev. Leo A. Walsh, S.T.D.
The Rev. Leo A. Walsh, S.T.D., formerly the Interreligious Affairs specialist at the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, is now pastor of St. Benedict's Parish in Anchorage, Alaska. Photo Credit: Bob Roller, Catholic News Service (CNS).
See more articles by (51).
Please note that the editorial staff reserves the right to not post comments it deems to be inappropriate and/or malicious in nature, as well as edit comments for length, clarity and fairness.
  • Lynn

    I think that it all depends on the people involved. A child can be raised in a strictly religious home and become atheist. A couple can both be Catholic and still get divorced. I know a Jewish woman who loves God more than many Catholics I know. I have learned so much about my own faith from experiences I have had with others of different faiths. We all should be open to one another and allow our experiences to touch one another. Sure there will be challenges, but it is up to the person how they handle them and work through them. Nothing is impossible and we should trust God to lead us through to Him.

powered by the Paulists