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Our readers asked:

If I am addicted to masturbation am I in a state of mortal sin?

Neela Kale Answers:

Sexual intimacy is meant to unite a married couple and help them express their love for one another; it is also meant to be life giving, open to the gift of a child and to a greater sharing of their love with the world. In Catholic understanding, masturbation cannot fulfill these twin purposes of sexual activity. Because it is a solitary activity, it is necessarily inwardly focused and cannot lead to greater union with another. And, obviously, it cannot be open to the gift of life. While moral theology today recognizes that psycho-sexual development takes place over a period of time, and that immaturity can mitigate what is usually a serious sin, Catholic teaching maintains that masturbation is an improper use of human sexuality.

This is where your choice of words is telling. By describing your situation as “addiction,” you suggest that you have gone beyond the exploratory stage that is a normal part of adolescent sexual development. Your question suggests that you do feel conscious of serious sin. You may be experiencing precisely the consequences that the Church warns can come from a distorted pattern of sexual behavior: an impeded ability to form healthy affective relationships and negative repercussions in all areas of your life. If you really are dealing with a sexual addiction, seek out professional psychological help. A competent counselor can help you work through the issues that underlie all patterns of addiction, so that you can truly resolve to amend your life in the sacrament of reconciliation.

The Author : Neela Kale
Neela Kale is a writer and catechetical minister based in the Archdiocese of Portland. She served with the Incarnate Word Missionaries in Mexico and earned a Master of Divinity at the Jesuit School of Theology. Some of her best theological reflection happens on two wheels as she rides her bike around the hills of western Oregon.
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  • JF

    On masturbation,The Catechism of the Catholc Church states: “To form an equitable judgment about the subjects’ moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of aquired habit, conditions of anxiety, or other psychological or social factors that lessen or even extenuate moral culpability.” (#2352)

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